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The power of the clitoris – press this button for better Dominatrix sex

Many people either ignore the clitoris or are unaware of it – there is more to the clitoris than just rubbing it

The clitoris is the most sensitive erogenous zone in the human woman and the main button for sexual pleasure. I’m sure most of us know that stimulating the clitoris is a useful commodity, but how much do we know about it? How to touch, lick and tease?

where and what is

Make sure you know where to find the clitoris: it’s at the top of the vulva, just below the point where the inner lips meet. It looks like a lovely little bud, and this bud has over 8,000 nerve endings, which is almost double the amount of a penis. Some say the clitoris is linked to the female G-spot, but this has not been proven.

Fun fact: did you know that the G-spot was named after the German researcher Ernst Gräfenberg? Like, that’s what G means. Don’t call him Gräfenberg, that’s weird. “Oh baby, am I hitting your Gräfenberg?”

Either way, most women prefer or even need clitoral stimulation to arrive. Taunting, touching or licking (cunnilingus). However, as this little bean has an insane amount of nerve endings, it’s not always good if you make direct contact with it; attach direct stimulation to the cap, or areas close to the glans may be more pleasurable. Playing with the clitoris is mandatory; I mean, I can’t climax without it. General statistics suggest that 70-80 percent of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.

Is important?

The importance of the clitoris was the argument at the 2002 Canadian Society of Women in Philosophy conference, the idea that one sex is sexual and the other reproductive. Is not true.

Nancy Tuana argued that the clitoris is unnecessary in reproduction; she stated that she was ignored because of “fear of pleasure. It is pleasure separate from reproduction. That’s the fear. ” The truth is that both are sexual and reproductive. ”

We could go on about the history and science of the clitoris; is still being studied today, but one thing we know for sure? It’s amazing when it’s stimulated in the right way!

How to stimulate the clitoris

There are several ways to tickle this bean. Alone, with a toy, or with a partner. Whichever path you choose, it will be epic; with 8,000 nerve endings, how can you not? But remember, it’s sensitive.

Fingers!

If you watch porn, play with her clit, or masturbate a lot, then you know the basics. Take a finger or two, lubricate them and rub. You can’t go wrong when your hand is exploding in the cunt, because you can stimulate the clitoris in one way or another. Still, there are better ways to play with it, strategic places to play, multiple speeds, and pressure.

Here are some of the best ways to stimulate that clitoris! For you or your partner.

Make the slide! Just swipe your fingers up and down, it’s the basic message. It’s amazing, it’s classic and easy.

Double-tap the clit if you want me! Yes, I am well aware that it was a horrible musical pun but serious. You can stimulate the clitoris by tapping it lightly and repeatedly. This is also fucking amazing.

Grind! This works with the clothes on or off, you can grind it in your hand, you can grind it in someone’s knee, or if you’re like me you can grind a stuffed animal.

Sign of peace! Take your two fingers and place them in a V shape above the clitoral hood. Rub up and down while pinching and gently pulling on her clitoris.

Worldwide! Take your two fingers, one finger, three, whatever you want. And circle around her clit, massaging her lips as well.

Oral

My God. I would sell my left leg for endless oral pleasure. Unfortunately, not many men know how to devour a woman. You can’t just smack your tongue and expect an orgasm. Your vagina is like a puzzle, and each vagina is its own puzzle, you have to have patience and a strategy.

Find the clitoris.

Before you go in and start stimulating, you need to tease her. Get her very wet and excited. Such that. Create anticipation.

Pay attention to what she likes, listen for verbal cues, the ” ooh’s ” and ” ahh’s “. if you feel her body go still, she’s probably not enjoying herself. Pay attention to your breathing patterns or moaning. If she starts to squirm and grab your hair, you’re doing something right.

“ The more fun you have, the more your partner will enjoy the experience, ” says Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., if you don’t, she will. If you’re trying to please her orally, you need to do it exactly as you’d expect a blowjob.

Part of orality that is ignored is moved the small lips of your partner, also known as “pussy lips.”

Just like with sex or a blowjob, it doesn’t all feel the same for all women. Be sure to ask what they like.

Start slowly, enjoy. Lick around her lips before reaching her clitoris, kiss her, rub her inner thighs as you experience the magic between your legs.

Much like sex, you must change your style. Slow and fast, hard and smooth.

For the love of Poseidon, stop trying to write the alphabet with your tongue. We don’t know what lyrics you’re writing, nor do we care. All he does is flick his tongue at random.

Try eating it in a puppy or standing position. Different positions can lead to different sensations. Don’t be afraid to experiment.

Enjoy what you’re doing, this is probably the biggest tip. If you are concentrating too much on pleasing her, you will fail. Genuinely enjoy its smell, taste, and feel.

Here is an article that shows the real magic of cunnilingus.

Section B penetration only. It should be a full-body experience for both partners. If she’s not stimulating her clitoris, you should. this doesn’t necessarily mean you have to use your hand; positions like cowgirl allow her to grind her clit on you. You can also use a vibrator to stimulate her clip while fucking her.

Use a vibrator on your clitoris during sex.

Rub her clitoris with your hand or ask her to rub it.

Make the stop and go . Stop having sex and get back on her.

Put on some music, get into the rhythm, don’t be afraid to throw it back in high school and mess up each other.

Be vocal. Talking about dirty sex for a reason, there’s nothing hotter than engaging in a sexual conversation.

Use lubrication , either own or store-bought. Dry friction sucks and it hurts like a motherfucker.

We all have preferences, one size doesn’t fit all. You can’t just climb down on a girl and expect her to feel good because you’ve found her clit. Every woman is different. You can’t begin to understand the meaning of pleasing her unless you’re having fun too. if you’re not enjoying what you’re doing, what makes you think she’s going to?

The clitoris may be the little difference between mediocre sex and explosive sex. It all depends on how much time, effort and knowledge you apply. The technique and style don’t have to be perfect. You’ll learn what you like along the way and develop your love of clitoral stimulation.

Her clitoris was designed for pleasure and her job is to please it.

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